Saturday, November 12, 2011

5 Lessons Learned from Writing Marcelo Garcia's Next Book (Plus a Bonus Video from Marcelo)

Coauthoring Marcelo Garcia's Advanced Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu revolutionized my jiu-jitsu and gave me a unique insight into Marcelo's style.

Before I get into some of the surprises hidden within the book, you should be familiar with the process I used to write the book.  Typically, for Victory Belt books, the author, photographer, and publisher fly out to a fighter's gym and spend two or three days taking sequential photos of techniques.  When the photographer and publisher leave, the author often stays at the gym to conduct more research (or comes back at a later date).  Every author handles the process a little bit differently, but that's the general summary.

In the case of Marcelo's book, the photo shoot and information gathering took place long before I was invited to join the project.  At the time, Erich Krauss and Glen Cordoza were managing the project, but the sheer volume of work coming through Victory Belt was overwhelming (Erich and Glen are workhorses and are always working on at least two books at a time, if not more).  I picked up where they left and worked from photos, videos, and interviews to complete the book.  If I had a question on a detail or a nuance, I would email Marcelo or Glen for clarification and set up a time where we could discuss the technique over the phone.

While I worked on the book, I wrote for 8 hours a day and trained every night.  Each day, I would take the techniques I was writing about and test them in the gym, both for my enjoyment and to gauge my understanding of a move.  This turned out to be the best way to write the book because I was essentially the reader and the writer simultaneously.  I was teaching myself the material, just as my readers would be, and if something was not working right I immediately reviewed the notes and phoned Marcelo or Glen.  I repeated this process until the instruction in the book was perfect (and then Marcelo and Glen went back over it again, just to be sure).

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

6 Tips for Public Speaking (Bonus 4 Week Boot Camp)

I have given book readings, guest lectures, seminars, and even a convocation speech. I have also given interviews for magazines, podcasts, and radio shows. Public speaking does not scare me, and when I told a friend of mine who was about to give a class presentation that fact, she was astonished.

“When you get up in front of a group of people, you have to know that you deserve to be there,” I told her. “When you’re up there, you have to believe that you’re a rock star. You have interesting things to say, and they want to hear you speak. In fact, they’re lucky to hear you speak.”

She later told me that my advice helped her, but in retrospect, I didn’t give her the complete set of tools for effective public speaking. I didn’t tell her that my stutter used to be so bad that I physically could not speak. The words would stick in my throat, and my lips would move noiselessly. I had to learn to rearrange sentences to find a word that I could actually say. Learning to take sentences apart and rework on them fly likely contributed to my writing ability, but having a stutter made my life an emotional nightmare. I was afraid of leaving my house for fear of encountering one of my many bullies, and I became intensely shy.

That was then. And now, I am booking speaking engagements at high schools and colleges and giving seminars on writing and publishing.

A lot of experimentation and trial and error took place between then and now, but I want you to be able to skip that and progress faster than I did. Here are 6 quick tips to becoming a public speaking master followed by a four week boot camp to jumpstart your public speaking ability.

1. Your outside affects your inside.
Confidence is the core of a successful public speaker, and developing that confidence is challenging. Changing your thought process and your perception of yourself takes time, but starting with your external self can establish outwardly what you want to be reflected inwardly. Cut your hair. Shave. Put on a nice suit or a nice pair of jeans. If you are fashion handicapped, ask a friend, preferably of the opposite sex, to take you shopping. Part of acting like a rock star is dressing like one, so look the part of someone that is confident, put together, and respected. If you are not sure what image works best for you, look to someone you admire and mimic how they dress.

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Free Cauliflower Chronicles Audio Book (Yet Another Update)


We're powering right through the free audio book version of the Cauliflower Chronicles. If you've been following along, you know that this version of the book is 100% free, and I encourage you to share it and copy it as much as you want.